Conversations with John & Lisa Bevere
Conversations with John & Lisa Bevere
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Most Christians Fall into This DEADLY Trap
Are you constantly rehearsing past hurts? Have you lost hope because of what someone did to you?
Offense is one of the most deceptive snares Satan uses to get believers out of the will of God. And the scary thing about offense is this: it often flies under the radar. Most Christians don't even know they are offended, and thus, are completely unaware of the havoc it's wreaking in their lives.
So how do you know if you are offended-and more importantly, what does the path to freedom look like? How do you go from being constantly weighed down by offense to traveling light?
Tune in to this week's episode of Conversations with John and Lisa Bevere to discover how you can overcome the deadly trap of offense!
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Chapters:
0:00 - Keeping Your Marriage Healthy
0:23 - The Bait of Satan
1:57 - Our Generation’s Greatest Battle
2:55 - What Does It Mean to Be Offended?
3:49 - The Symptoms of Offense
4:28 - 30 Years of The Bait of Satan
9:30 - An Offended Person Will Do This
15:28 - How I Went from Offense to Freedom
18:46 - This Kept Me from Getting Healed
23:35 - Forgiveness Versus Reconciliation
27:40 - When People Won’t Reconcile With You
31:35 - Ask Yourself This
33:15 - Celebrate 30 Years of The Bait of Satan
34:23 - Freedom Prayer
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How Thoughts Can IMPACT Your Marriage
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Are you giving the enemy a foothold in your marriage? A healthy marriage often begins with a healthy mindset. How do you break free from the trap of comparison and master the power of your thought life? In this episode of Conversations, we’re sharing biblical wisdom to help you think differently about marriage, your friendships, and beyond. Tune in for practical tools that can transform the way...
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How Fasting Can Deepen Your Relationship with God
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КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @joansommerfield8419
    @joansommerfield8419 День тому

    Interesting. John looks so fatigued. Where is the light and spark he always had? Bless you, brother.

  • @user-qo3hz5ve2m
    @user-qo3hz5ve2m День тому

    I’m going through this right now . He has revealed so much about myself the last few weeks . It has been overwhelming. This video has provided so much comfort to me in knowing that this is just a refining process and I WILL change

  • @jbean4176
    @jbean4176 День тому

    Maybe you guys could work out in advance a little bit more who is going to take the lead on what. It's hard for me to listen to you because you interrupt each other so much

  • @jdee1891
    @jdee1891 День тому

    When you speak un tongues, should it be different each time or can it always sound the same?

  • @StormsHurt
    @StormsHurt День тому

    Yes 😢

  • @PCGEEK2024
    @PCGEEK2024 День тому

    I go church ⛪️ but dont really know anyone. They dont know me, so i feel isolated, not that I am not friendly, anyone feel the same, or it just me? I love Jesus. I just find it hard at times.

  • @melanieburns8357
    @melanieburns8357 День тому

    Lisa, you’re interrupting your husband too much and it’s hard to listen to both of you at the same time

  • @rongillespie71
    @rongillespie71 День тому

    this lady interrupting his interview ruined it for me!

  • @Kimani_AkA_Momo
    @Kimani_AkA_Momo День тому

    Makes so much sense.

  • @aramisy.cajigas744
    @aramisy.cajigas744 День тому

    I agree with this video, but there are other factors churches and pastors are missing. The feminization if churches and not having a place for masculine men to be and develop is one of them.

  • @euniceakrong8054
    @euniceakrong8054 День тому

    Please help me; advise Godly approvals, even prayers if that is all you have. If God spoke to this great woman whose husband was practicing homosexuality, then I am just asking for a little help in prayers. I believe God but I a little help.

  • @euniceakrong8054
    @euniceakrong8054 День тому

    Please help me

  • @jilllingenfelter4682
    @jilllingenfelter4682 День тому

    Tell my ex husband that hope(me/Gods daughter is long gone he/his whole family they don’t get to reclaim me #i’m 100% extremely Single/100% extremely extremely Free thank you Jesus :) my ex hubs needs to hear this that way he can move on with his life for good!!@Conversationswithjohnandlisabevere

  • @maleakomolepo3067
    @maleakomolepo3067 День тому

    I love how in love they are...so amazing ❤

  • @JohnJohn-fq5bl
    @JohnJohn-fq5bl День тому

    James 4:4 ► You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. Matthew 12:43-45 New International Version 43 “When an impure spirit comes out of a person, it goes through arid places seeking rest and does not find it. 44 Then it says, ‘I will return to the house I left.’ When it arrives, it finds the house unoccupied, swept clean and put in order. 45 Then it goes and takes with it seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and live there. And the final condition of that person is worse than the first. That is how it will be with this wicked generation.”

  • @kcdw3495
    @kcdw3495 День тому

    I dont know how many times I've had a crisis, come to the end of my rope & told God I can't do this, I'm giving this problem to you & I'll trust you with the outcome, even if its a catastrophe & almost immediately God performed a miracle & solved the problem...

  • @dollah04
    @dollah04 День тому

    Thank you, I needed to hear this

  • @laureinegp
    @laureinegp 2 дні тому

    Lisa, please stop interrupting.

  • @didaralyjainil7286
    @didaralyjainil7286 2 дні тому

    Amazing keys. Pls try to monetize your channel by adding a super thanks button so we can bless you back from feeding us!

  • @YAJM_
    @YAJM_ 2 дні тому

    The Christian life is very difficult

  • @user-od8yk1vv9w
    @user-od8yk1vv9w 2 дні тому

    If marriage is so important to God, why does He deny it for so many of us? Especially those of us who are not called to singleness either in nature of the dreams/desires God puts on our hearts.

  • @jamesyeo2831
    @jamesyeo2831 2 дні тому

    I made a choice to walk in the Spirit, not walking in my flesh. I made a conscious choice.

  • @BBiblelearning
    @BBiblelearning 2 дні тому

    Great! Great message on SANCTIFICATION!

  • @carriehaflich5604
    @carriehaflich5604 2 дні тому

    I agree I'm living a nightmare. I've be married 20 years I love the Lord I go to church and my husband goes 1st a month 🙏

  • @leedunne7726
    @leedunne7726 2 дні тому

    Wouldn't that be self control?

  • @uschicamamaluv1
    @uschicamamaluv1 2 дні тому

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @jamescanata8631
    @jamescanata8631 2 дні тому

    Our dog is a Christian 🤣 Love listening to you both. God is so good and moving through my life in powerful ways. The Awe of God and The Holy Spirit have helped tremendously. Thank you

  • @roseholm1611
    @roseholm1611 2 дні тому

    Both interrupt each other, it would be a blessing if they didn’t 😳

  • @Thunder-sf4qy
    @Thunder-sf4qy 2 дні тому

    Those That Choose Not To Continue To Obey The Lord ⬇️ Joshua 24:15 kjv- And if it seem evil unto you to serve the Lord, (choose) you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord. (Free will choice) 2 Chron 15:2 kjv- ....The LORD is with you, while ye be with him; and if ye seek him, he will be found of you; but if ye forsake him, he will forsake you. (Free will choice) Malachi 3:7 kjv- Even from the days of your fathers ye are gone away from mine ordinances, and have not kept them. Return unto me, and I will return unto you, saith the Lord of hosts. But ye said, Wherein shall we return? (Free will choice) Revelation 3:20 Niv- Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me. (Free will choice) Matthew 7:21 kjv- Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. (Free will choice) Luke 6:46 kjv- And why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and do not the things which I say? (Free will choice) John 14:15 Amplified- If you really love Me, you will keep and obey My commandments. (Free will choice) John 8:31 kjv- Then said Jesus to those Jews who believed in Him, “If ye CONTINUE IN MY WORD, THEN ARE YE MY DISCIPLES INDEED! (Free will choice) Amos 3:3 kjv- Can two walk together, except they be agreed? (Free will choice) You have a free will choice to continue to walk / live in agreement in YAHWEH'S WORD with obedience. Its our responsibility on earth as Kingdom Citizens of the Most High. That is a better way of saying once saved always saved, because people are leaving out the requirement and no longer teaching the requirement of "Obedience"! 🔥🔥🔥🙏 Shalom.

  • @twalker494
    @twalker494 2 дні тому

    I actually agree and living this and honestly it’s not as easy and simple as it seems the only way to do this is with the Grace and strength of God

  • @alisaw4076
    @alisaw4076 2 дні тому

    I've seen this at work in my own life as well as others, both the good and bad side of it. We are to protect our marriages not invite the enemy in so be careful what you say and who you say it to. Check your heart and the motivation you have in sharing something before you speak it. If it doesn't serve a Godly or righteous purpose and it's just to vent or make the other person look bad then work with the Holy Spirit to hold your tongue otherwise you will likely get burned sooner than later by your own words. Proverbs 18:21: "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit." Meaning you reap what you sow, so choose to speak life not death.

  • @airplane800
    @airplane800 2 дні тому

    It was easier to be a Christian in the 70s. We had to deal mainly with sinners and preach the Gospel. Now we have dozens of people trying to sell books, profit with faith and making Christian life more difficult and miserable that really is. There are so many "how to" that makes me vomit, just like Jesus and the Laodicea church. The biggest trap is that pastors and ministries made church a business and are just thinking about profiting.

  • @celeryy6
    @celeryy6 2 дні тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @mishaperu2572
    @mishaperu2572 2 дні тому

    Thank you so much, i needed that conviction. Been praying so much because I feel so struck. God bless you ❤

  • @jacquilambert1964
    @jacquilambert1964 2 дні тому

    What happens if it take offence because it the same person doing the same thing that offends me over and over again and he's my husband who is saved 30 years married and he's still continues to be offended by people calling people putting people down because he's covering up his hurt he's shut of spiritually but I shouldnt take offence, Im broken

  • @childofgodyehovah187
    @childofgodyehovah187 2 дні тому

    Awesome point this 🙌

  • @MyHanck
    @MyHanck 2 дні тому

    The problem for us is when we know what to do, faith immediately goes out the door. This is because of the closed system of sin, law, death and the Devil we live in and there is no way out of the law except through the promise.

  • @StanleypeterDickinson
    @StanleypeterDickinson 2 дні тому

    Majority Priority Health Wealth Happiness. Prayer of Jabez Where did that author and his family go?

  • @debravan-aalst4723
    @debravan-aalst4723 2 дні тому

    There’s nowhere in the bible that it says there’s “a 7 year period of tribulation and simultaneous marriage supper of the lamb “,though it’s widely taught in the ‘church’ as being the case🤔

  • @mf-ud1uo
    @mf-ud1uo 2 дні тому

    The Church is a Fu$$ing MESS of a JOKE x 10 , 99% are a freaking Joke....

  • @kcdw3495
    @kcdw3495 2 дні тому

    My mother told me when i was little "no one will ever love you" i carried that in my heart for 40 odd years. Thankfully God chose to set me free from that & help me to realise someone does love me, unconditionally & whole heartedly, his name is Jesus. Now I'm just sad for her because she & my entire family are still living under the deception of satan. I pray one day he will have mercy on her & set her free too. 🙏

  • @lanesievers9238
    @lanesievers9238 2 дні тому

    I thank God for you guys… you bless my life so much.

  • @felixramirez5405
    @felixramirez5405 3 дні тому

    I have been offended many times on the things people done to me, was it right no, but I know I have offended God and he forgave me , so I don’t have a right to hold unto unforgivness . Honestly this is an area I’m still working on. 🙏

  • @lynnbrown3777
    @lynnbrown3777 3 дні тому

    The Bait of Satan is my favorite book by John Bevere.

  • @kcdw3495
    @kcdw3495 3 дні тому

    Love that your sons are equipped to just step in when Lisa isn't well. God is so good!

  • @blakeshroyer627
    @blakeshroyer627 3 дні тому

    Isolation is bad? God puts us in seasons of isolation...its part of the refining process.

  • @BeatriceCartiel
    @BeatriceCartiel 3 дні тому

    So good. Thank you. I've been going through such a tough and testing time. It's horrid but I don't want it cut short cause I know that God will be glorified at the end of it. I see a number of things in my character that are not nice, but now I know that it's cause the furnace has been turned up! 🔥

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  • @andredutoit8830
    @andredutoit8830 3 дні тому

    THANK YOU for sharing. Marriage is a covenant and a covenant requires commitment. John is right. Marriage involves 3 people. Much love xxx

  • @Jazzy_babyHZL
    @Jazzy_babyHZL 3 дні тому

    Wow my ninos mom strong woman of God gave me this same advice to hear you saying God gave you the same strategy confirmation